Top 5: Tips for Better Sex

Posted by Anida Leeds

A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. It won't always be easy -- our busy lives are taxing and often leave us tired and devoid of the imagination and motivation required to keep up the pace. Having good sex doesn't necessarily mean spending hours and hours of frolicking, it can be as simple as doing something a little different just for a change.

Here are five tips for better sex, which will help just about anyone to turn up the heat for some time to come.

5. Blindfolds
Bondage has always been very taboo, but it is also a lot of fun. We aren't suggesting going out and building yourself a dungeon of toys in your basement. But starting slow and using a simple tie or handkerchief can do a lot. Blocking one of your senses increases sensory awareness. By being blindfolded (blocking your sight sensor) you will improve your smell, touch and sound sensors. A blindfold will allow you and your partner to increase excitement in many ways; you can play games of touch by teasing each other with sensory objects, such as a feather or your tongue. Start softly, as this will begin to excite the nerve endings play around in ways you never thought of but try not to overstimulate as this could cause the entire process to become null and void. Learn about what each other likes and dislikes and bring your sexual pleasure to the next level.

4. Massage
A massage is one of the most relaxing and sexually stimulating things you can do with your partner. Sometimes we forget to touch each other and dive right into lovemaking. A relaxing sexual massage can unlock some unknown pleasures you never experienced before. Always start with your partner lying on their stomach and touch the back and bottom, start slow and try to avoid touching the body too sexually. Try and tease your partner into wanting more. Continue to relax them but not too much that they fall asleep. When you begin to sense your partner getting into the mood having them flip over and start touching, even more, will bring you both to a new level. Rubbing, touching and kissing often will make this massage something you both will want often. It's not called a happy ending for anything.

3. Role Playing
We have talked about role-playing before in previous articles, and there is a reason for that, it is exciting. You can do so many things with role-playing from telling your partner your fantasies and acting them out to playing exciting games. Have an open mind while doing this activity and take it to the level you feel comfortable or even get out of your comfort zone and express it by talking dirty to each other. Dress your partner up in that fireman outfit and show him how to use a hose the right way. Get your partner those pom poms and miniskirt of your favorite NFL team and get your game on. Role-playing has so many advantages to sprucing up your sex life so give it a try and learn to enjoy exploring new things.

2. Try A New Position
In our previous articles, we spoke about a bunch of sex positions: Standing X Marks The Spot, The Cowgirl, Dominant Missionary and more to come. Don't just have sex to get yourself off, have sex to relieve your stress of everyday work and the hustle and bustle of real life. That is why we suggest the role-playing, massages, light bondage and more. Do something you don't usually do every day. If you tried all of our sex positions make up your own. Try it on your washing machine during the spin cycle, go outside in the pouring rain (if you're secluded enough), have sex and have sex often. Sex helps your life in so many ways why not try as many positions as you can imagine.

1. Toys, Toys, and More Toys
Sex toys are the ultimate for having better sex. Toys today are not just dildos. You have cock rings, clamps, tongue flippers, swings, and even vibrators with computers that sense your body & adjust to make you orgasm harder and longer than ever before. There are toys for couples, toys for boys and toys for girls, toys to make your sex last longer and you to grow your cock larger. Toys come in so many different sizes, shapes and categories we could go on forever and never use the same toy twice. Don't be afraid or timid when it comes to a new toy; they are built for your pleasure not to scare you, remember everyone needs a pleasure box. Explore your body in ways you never dreamed of you will not be disappointed.

We hope to help every one of you that read this post and would love to hear your tips. Feel free to let us know some of your favorite Tips for Better Sex and join us in making sexual taboos a thing of the past.

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