Sex Education 101

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This week we would like to help educate you on some of the basics when it comes to sexual education. We all think we know it all when it comes to sex and that we are the best lovers around. The simple fact is we don't know it all so we tried to group some of the top misconceptions about sex to clear the fog in this weeks article. As always if you have some great tips, tricks or new ideas let us hear it. We love to get feedback from our readers.


Most people learn what they enjoy sexually by exploring what feels good when they touch themselves. As our bodies' age and change, so may our desires and techniques. Masturbation can be an integral part of knowing ourselves and what we enjoy or don't, regardless of how young or old. Believe it or not, lots of people masturbate in lots of different ways. If your masturbation routine could use some spicing up, be sure to check out some of our previous posts for ideas or activities and sensations you might like to try. Masturbation is fun, it's a stress reliever, a boredom basher, a mood enhancer, it can make you a better lover, and it's good for you!

Penis Size

It's a common misconception, and widely held fear, that large penises rule the world of sexual happiness. In the reality of biology, 90% of erect penises measure 5-7 inches in length, and 1-2 inches in diameter. If you're concerned that your penis is too small, you can rest assured that you are in good company. Our media and culture tell us that bigger is better. But that can't be true of all things, especially when it comes down to tools. For a moment, think of your penis as a tool. If it is too small, what is it too small for? Just like different tasks require different tools, many people prefer different penis sizes for different activities. Some people say they like large ones for oral sex, medium ones for vaginal sex, and small ones for anal sex. Still others have preferences in the exact opposite direction and everything in between. Some people like the sensation of fullness that a larger penis can provide but there are many ways to achieve this sensation, one way is to use a penis enhancer.

For some people, penis size doesn't matter at all. In surveys about what women and men want in a lover, findings indicate that most people are looking for qualities like interpersonal connection with their partner, their partner's attention and sensitivity to their body, and the ability to respond to their individual needs. So if you want to please your partner, take time to learn about your partner's body and find out what moves them. Take a load of worry off your pecker and just love it, it stands to bring you some of the best pleasure you've ever known. If you don't know this by now refer back up to our section on masturbation.


It's common to not have a full erection sometimes. This is true for every man. It's especially common in a situation that is new, exciting or stressful, like being with a new partner, for example. Having a fear of erection problems can often result in an erection problem. Take your time with your new partners, and have patience. Being sexually comfortable with a new partner often takes time, try being naked and touching each other for a longer period of time. Payoffs are greatly improved by this method for all parties involved. Slow deep conscious breathing can help send a message to your body and your brain to relax. There are lots of fun things to do while you're waiting for wood.


While the clitoris is the sexual hub of the universe for many women, it usually requires a bit of preparation to get aroused for digital or oral manipulation.

Teasing and gentle petting is a great way to start stimulating the clitoris. You may wish to start out gently kissing her inner thighs, and continue your explorations from there.

Licking and nibbling the other surfaces of the pussy is adored by many women. Go slowly and think fun. Since it's hard to have a verbal conversation when you are eating pussy, you can refer to her body language, whimpers and moans, etc. for feedback.

Direct clitoral stimulation is divine for some, and others prefer indirect stimulation of the clitoris, while others enjoy having the clitoris sucked. Indirect clitoral stimulation can be achieved by stroking your tongue through the channels on either side of the clitoral hood and applying pressure to the clit through the hood.

Many women love a combination of all of these techniques, and other techniques that are uniquely yours. Afterward, ask for feedback and listen to her responses if you want to be the greatest lover in her world. Take notes (not on paper) and store them in your brain vault.

The G-Spot

The G-spot is the spongy, ridged area on the front wall of the vagina. It is loaded with nerve endings and is an erogenous zone for many women. Not every woman finds stimulation of this area pleasant.

The G-spot can best be located by inserting one or more fingers two to three inches into the vagina and stroking towards the front of the body with a "come hither" motion. Some women require quite a bit of pressure, lubricant can be very helpful for applying pressure without irritating tissue. You may or may not feel anything you can identify as a G-Spot, so rely on your partner's feedback to find your way. Most women are more likely to find G-Spot stimulation pleasurable after they are already aroused. Of those who greatly enjoy this type of stimulation, some women experience an ejaculation of fluid upon orgasm or as part of arousal. This fluid is a product of the para-urethral sponge. It is clear and odorless, and is not urine. So don't panic. We hope you enjoyed this weeks post, we tried to keep it short and to the point. If you would like to leave us some of your tips, techniques or just comment on anything that is on your mind let us know. To help us serve you better let us know what articles you would like to read more of. Do you want to read about the latest toys? The newest lingerie or sexual enhancers? Keep us posted and we will do the same in return.

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