How to be the best he's ever had: Read On

Posted by Anida Leeds on

We all want to be good in the bedroom right? Right. Whether we admit it or not, we all want to be the one that gives him the night he will never forget.

Because everyone wants to have that exciting feeling when someone tells you that you're "the best".

So how can you be the best he's ever had? We did our research, experimented, bruised a few knees and even survived a little rug burn to bring you these ultimate sex tips.

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Trust us, if you want to be the one he can't stop thinking about, you'll want to read these tips.

We have stressed it before in other articles, foreplay is what gets everyone in the mood and ready. This time we are talking about foreplay to foreplay. We want you to start spicing things up before you even get into the bedroom.

Foreplay to foreplay.

How about starting the day off when he is at work, Send him some naughty texts or emails "not work emails ;)". Tell him he is in for it when he gets home but don't reveal too much. The sense of mystery will really get him going. We all love to go out to eat, but waiting for him to set things up could keep you waiting for some time. Why not take charge and plan your own romantic dinner. You heard a way to a man's heart is through his stomach, so plan your own date night and start it off right. After your amazing night of drinks and food surprise him with a candle lit massage with sensual oils. Make it all about him to the point he will be begging for more, just don't give in - all of this will create a build up that can lead to the most incredible of experiences.

Yes, being the best isn't only about what you do in bed, it's about what you do out of bed too.

Eye contact

Looking someone in the eye can make the experience really intimate and more intense, especially if your faces are just inches apart. Don't make it a starring contest, but a few seconds here and there of lengthy gazes will show him you are the boss tonight, and also help you to gauge what should come next.

Be a try-sexual

Want to be the best he's ever had? Then don't be afraid to experiment.

We aren't telling you to go out and build yourself a bondage room with swings, whips, chains and everything else (but of course if you want to, then go for it!), a little experimentation can go a long way.

By now he is so relaxed you can basically do whatever you want and he will want you more than ever. Hold back because we are just getting started.

Sensory play is your next step in blowing his mind. You'll be amazed at how your other senses are heightened when one is cut off. Try blindfolding your partner and "toy" with him. You can use an ice cube or some warm wax. We would suggest a chilled glass toy to cut down on the mess but that is up to you.

Pop it in the fridge beforehand and run it all over the body, re-visiting their erogenous zones. Team that with a passionate kiss now and then and you're onto a winner.

Don't forget the lube

When it comes to sex, wet is best.

Lubricants with added extras like desensitizing gel or warming qualities are a great addition. Hand jobs will never be the same again, lube up your palm and your partner, then use long smooth strokes. Try twisting your hand at the same time for a whole new experience. Get his shaft as hard as you can. Pace yourself though and don't get to excited, you want to be his best and letting him finish now is good, but not the best.

His cock is about ready to explode at this point so slow it down, focus on his two extra boys down below and don't forget the perineum. The perineum is the little patch of skin in between his testicles and anus - it's a nerve super center and is very responsive to touch. Apply a light amount of pressure with the tip of your finger and massage gently. Gauge his reaction and adjust the pressure and speed accordingly. If he is into experimenting as much as you, try rubbing his prostate a little, this is the man's "G-Spot" and will drive him crazy.

Doing this at the point of climax can add to the intensity and make his orgasm exceptional.

Take control

Your man is to the point he will do anything to climax. Don't let him "yet". Try not letting your partner get control at any point - you stay on top and decide how things are going to go.

Restraint is a great way to gain control, but at this point I doubt either of you are thinking about stopping. Soft satin ties are a great alternative to clunky handcuffs and feel great against the skin, alternatively just hold their hands in place. Show him who is in charge and you will give him the ride of his life.

We hope you take some of our tips and apply them to a special night to remember. If you do there is no doubt you will be the one he thinks about as his best ever. Just like anything else, it could be a bit much if you do it all of the time, but every now and then it can work a treat.

Now I need to go take care of myself 8) xoxoxo


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